I love this. Its in all the toilets at the local birth centre and basically if your in a domestic violence relationship and cant speak out about it you take one of the stickers and place it on the urine pot and the midwife will speak to you after about it and get you the help needed to flee the violence. So upsetting how many stickers have already gone tho đŚ
If it makes you feel better, those might not have been taken by actual folks who needed it â we were taught at the clinic I worked at to never leave a full sheet of anything, because the sorts of folks who need these stickers might also be the kind of folks who, psychologically, have a hard time taking a first step or âbreakingâ something brand new â like being the first person to take a sticker off a sheet or tear a phone number off a flyer.  They called it âeasing the pathâ and all us admin staff were careful to never fill up brochure things all the way, to take the first tag off a flyer we hung up, leave the toys for the kids in uneven piles and leave a couple of books leaning or sideways or lying flat on the shelf.
Reblog for the second set of comments. Folks in abusive relationships have a constant mental commentary about how you arenât worth it, youâre a bother, youâre inconvenient, you cause trouble, itâs all your fault. That âeasing the wayâ is solid psychology. Feeling like youâre not alone, youâre not the only one who has this problem, can let you shift from feeling helpless and hopeless to being willing to reach out for help.
âIâm a gun owner. I have two pistols, a rifle, a shotgunâŚand a (now-expired) concealed carry permit. Iâve been shooting since I was a kid. I also support every single gun control measure out there. Why? Well, because of a number of logical reasons:
1. I go to gun shows, and Iâve witnessed more illegal cash sales than I can count. People bring guns to sell to dealers at the show and end up selling them to buyers in the parking lot who are willing to pay cash. No background check, no bill of sale, no formal transfer of ownership. Yes, this is happening, people! It is a regular occurrence and illegal in many states.
2. Every time I go to the gun range, I witness someone doing something extremely dangerous with a gun. Iâve been swept more than 20 times â this means someone has unintentionally pointed a gun at me. Iâve seen the wrong ammo used (ask my husband about the time he almost lost an eye). Iâve watched people shooting guns that they lack experience with or ones that they canât handle (take, for example, a child or a smaller adult shooting a Desert Eagle semiautomatic handgun), causing kickback that can injure them and cause them to flail their loaded gun in all directions. Iâve seen guns jam, and people continue to fire them to âclear the jam.â Iâve seen people continue to fire when the range is âcold.â All of these people consider themselves âresponsibleâ gun owners. Nope. And these arenât exceptions to the rule â every single time I go to the range, I see someone doing something reckless and potentially deadly.
3. Iâve seen people handle guns when they are drunk, tired, hungover, or angry. I would never think of doing these things. It is irresponsible, and again, potentially deadly.
4. A friend of my college boyfriend pointed a loaded gun in my face because he wanted to show me how cool his new toy was. I dropped to the ground. He forgot it was loaded. Heâs a high-ranking officer in the U.S. Navy.
5. The class you take to get a concealed carry permit in North Carolina is easy to pass. You sit through a two-day class, take a simple written test, get a background check and fingerprints through the sheriffâs office, and basically just have to prove that you can hit the broad side of a barn. Thatâs it.
6. The âhero mentalityâ is misguided and dangerous. Unless you have combat training, the âgood guy/gal with a gunâ is more likely to kill another civilian or get mistaken by cops as the shooter. Iâm a decent shot with a pistol. Iâm a great shot with my rifle. But in a life or death situation, where people are literally being murdered in front of me, itâs completely unrealistic to think that, even with all my training, I could do anything but add to the chaos.
7. The NRA is a terrorist organization. Yup, I said it. I used to be a member because they gave discounts on shooting-range time. I quit after one year because I couldnât stomach the thought that my money was funding them. Their magazine and mailers are filled with propaganda about people coming to take my guns when there is absolutely zero evidence at all to suggest that is ever going to happen. Their recent ads make me sick and ashamed that I ever supported them. 8. The home protection argument makes sense to me on some level. I had a friend who was killed during a home invasion, so I get it. But an AK-47 (and other assault weapons) is not an ideal weapon for personal defense, and it serves no purpose for âhome protection.â It was designed for military use. A a 12-gauge shotgun is a better, more realistic choice for home defense. Iâve never seen any peer-reviewed study/expert/article anywhere that can refute this. Bottom line: Assault-style weapons should never be in the hands of civilians. Period. And going back to point No. 7, in a home-protection or self-defense situation, youâre still more likely to injure yourself or have your own gun used against you. These are my thoughts on the subject as an experienced, licensed, and trained gun owner. Iâm already a member of the Brady Campaign, Everytown for Gun Safety, and will be joining Moms Demand Action. I find it impossible to understand why other gun owners like myself donât support these groups. They arenât trying to take away my guns; they are trying to inject some freaking common sense into the equation â something we desperately need and that every gun owner should support.âÂ
and for the fucking record, conservatives, stop touting places like israel and switzerland as âgun utopias.â israel and switzerland both have harsh gun control laws, much harsher than the united states, and you can literally go to jail for simply misplacing your weapon (which could then be used by someone untrained).
Coming from a country where owning a gun is illegal, the concept of untrained civilians holding guns is really distopic
Like if anyone found out you were holding a gun, even an unloaded one, people would literally start running and panicking. They would think that youre a psycho
Coming from a deep red state where you see someone carrying in public every day, it is pretty distopic.
I see a guy with a pistol on his hip at the grocery store and I wonder what kind of worldview makes him think he needs to be strapped to buy cereal and frozen pizza. I think heâs a psycho, too.
oh i see what you mean. Youâre kind of visualizing it like a flip side of a coin or card, take the word âswimsâ and turn it upside down by actually turning it 180 degrees.Â
THATS WHAT UPSIDE DOWN MEANS
bella do me a favor and literally write down the word on a piece of paper and turn it upside down
OKAY BUT I DONT SEE HOW THATS GONNAÂ
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Ironically enough, your sad, angry smiley face will also read the same when turned upside downâŚ
people out here really thinking that every badass woman is bisexual
âŚ.umm
3 out of the 4 are canon bisexuals. the wasp is the only one thatâs fanon and she has this working towards her in favour of being biâŚ
canadian actresses canât play straight characters itâs a scientific fact sorry
Of course theyâre bi. Their male writers wanted an excuse to draw girl-on-girl action AND have them flirt with any male they needed them to. đ
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wonder woman was created by william marston, a man who was in a commited polyamorous relationship with his wife, elizabeth, and their partner, olive. he had experienced the love that the two bisexual women in his life had towards himself and eachother. he wanted wonder woman to share this quality, but unfortunately because it was the 1940s he couldnât even show âgirl-on-girl actionâ let alone a healthy loving relationship between two women.
harley quinnâs bisexuality was confirmed with a kiss between her and poison ivy in the series âbombshellsâ (2015-2017) which was created by marguerite bennett, who is a queer woman, then was later confirmed via twitter by amanda conner, the artist and co-writer of harleyâs (2013-2016) solo series, yet another not-man, that harley and poison ivy were indeed girlfriends.
valkyrieâs bisexuality was revealed in âfearless defendersâ by cullen bunn. they definitely took full advantage of drawing valkyrie with an unnamed character that had nothing to do with the plot just to put them into a hot sexy lezzy situation, seeâŚ
oh wait, nevermind. thatâs her with annabelle riggs, a developed character in the series, and that was her and valkyrieâs only physically romantic interaction before riggs sacrifices herself to save the team.
also, in the mcu, tessa thompson who is a queer woman, pushed to show valkyrieâs bisexuality in âthor: ragnarokâ but was shut down by the straight men at the studios.
âŚitâs almost like most women-loving-women representation is actually spearheaded by women and/or queer individuals, and even when itâs not, itâs still not always sexualised. donât belittle bi female representation on false claims of sexism.
more proof on the wasp being bi:
God forbid Lesbian and Bisexual women have healthy strong relationships, how dare they!
Fuck Fake Nerd Boys and girls.. get your bullshit outta here.
 Some of you are reblogging because you think its funny that programmers would talk to ducks. Iâm reblogging because I think its funny picturing a programmer explaining their code, realizing what they did when they explain the bad code, then grabbing the strangling the duck while yelling âWHY WAS THE FIX THAT SIMPLE!? AM I GOING BLIND!â
AS A PROGRAMMER I CAN TELL YOU THAT THIS IS EXACTLY WHAT YOU FUCKING DO WE HAD TO BAN THE DUCKS FROM MY CLASSES BECAUSE EVERYONE WOULD FLIP THE DUCK OR THROW IT AT A WALL OR SOMETHING WHEN THEY FIGURED OUT THE PROBLEM IN THEIR CODE
so thatâs the function of a rubber duck
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I work at a startup and part of the onboarding package you get when you first start working here now includes a rubber duck. We also have a bigger version of the duck for the extra hard problems. Sometimes one duck doesnât cut it and you need to borrow your neighbors to get more ducks on the problem. One time we couldnât figure out why something wasnât working right so we assembled the counsel of ducks and by the grace of the Duck Gods were we able to finally come to a solution. These ducks have saved many lives and should be respected for the heroes they are.
I use this for writing, actually. Explain what Iâm doing and what I want to do and the different ways i can get to point B from A, as well as the different problems, amazingly working them out as I explain why I could or couldnât the different things. I love the Rubber Duck theory.
Former programmer, can confirm. We didnât have a duck in our office so our other programmer, who I shared a space with, used me as a duck proxy. (For the explaining, not the throwing.)
There was more than one day where Iâd casually hear âHey can you be a duck for a minute?â
my hot topic cashier had big buttons that said âask me about my fursonaâ and âsubmissiveâ on his lanyard but no name tag because thats just too personal i guess